When we fantasize about the ideal relationship, we are speaking to an ideal found only in God.
Our Lover is:
delighting in us at every moment
looking at us, wanting to make spiritual eye contact
desiring to act on our behalf.
Our true Lover is the Lord, Who desperately had to be with us.
“He intensely craves the spirit that He made to dwell in us.” James 4:5
How much does He love us? We dare not count, lest we miss the adoration in His face.